Wow. You totally don't give me that vibe AT all. Women are so primed to be judged at every opportunity that I feel we continually don't know who to open up to. Might that have been it?

I wouldn't be surprised. The people I'm thinking of did tell me eventually (which is how I know now) but I think that came about as they got to know me better. I have no idea how many women I know still prefer to keep their histories and their opinions private.

The major issue IMO is that there are many more than two opinions being forced into a 'black and white' argument. Historically, little comes from polar arguments except suspicion and violence, yk? I'm not surprised if it has a whole lot of people afraid to out their own decisions. That stinks. :/

I totally agree with you here.