The thing about "lies" is it sometimes ends up being a matter of interpretation. When ppl on both sides of the issue in question are thinking "i'm not lying", this is a problem. Where the hell did the made up story come from? Possibly different interpretations of the facts. I know I've heard/read some fascinating stories about my friends, my former friends, myself,etc....well, who the hell came up with this shit? Why are ppl talking all this shit without bothering to hear what other folks in question have to say? Good fucking question.

Sometimes if I hear something fucked up or feel shitty about someone, I won't bring it to their attention bc I simply am not up to going there. Sometimes I think it's just MY problem and I need to get over it....which generally doesn't work out well for me bc it ends up w me resenting the shit out of someone, sometimes it's bc I don't really give enough of a shit about that person to have it out w them (honest. sad but true), and sometimes I just have too much shit going on in my head to deal w having that conversation.

sigh.

I dunno, dude.