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the_siobhan ([personal profile] the_siobhan) wrote2003-07-02 12:20 pm

safe as houses

The new place is going to be wonderful. Note the "going to be". Right now it is kinda gross, mostly because the people who lived there smoked, and washing the nicotine off walls so we can camp out in a particular room without giving ourselves nightmares is severely disgusting.

On the plus side nothing makes you feel quite so much like a million dollars as a nice hot shower followed by beer-and-wings on a local patio after scrubbing yellow-coloured goo in 34 degree weather for four-five hours. I expect to be feeling like a million dollars quite frequently over the next month.

Advantages to being/living with an ex-squattie -- you can tolerate sub-optimal living conditions for a while, and you know how to do things like hook up your own utilities.

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Jenn met a bunch of my friends on Monday. Friends like her. She likes friends. She participated quite happily in the up-till-five-am beer-drinking and shit-talking that inaugurated getting the keys to the new place.

I am so completely floored by how cool this all is that I keep looking under the table to figure out where the catch is hiding.

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And on a completely different note:

One of the things I've been keeping my eye on lately is the progress of the GothCon Boycott over at [livejournal.com profile] gcinquisition.

Technically I have no personal stake in all this, since I've never been to a GothCon and don't know any of the people involved. But I do figure I have something of a professional interest in knowing which promoters are competent, professional and honest and in what events are worthy of possible sponsorship. And quite frankly a purely personal curiosity in knowing what the hell really happened.

As the next GothCon approaches, there have been a lot more posts from current organizers -- both in the community and elsewhere -- denying that there was any wrongdoing on [livejournal.com profile] 000100010001's part. Fair enough. But so far those who are calling for the boycott have been able to present a cohesive list of links, letters and other evidence to back up their claims. Those who would defend GothCon have only made vague claims and accusations that contradict each other and previous statements made by [livejournal.com profile] 000100010001.

So -- if you were weighing the evidence. Who would you believe?
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[personal profile] kest 2003-07-02 11:07 am (UTC)(link)
What are you using to wash the walls with? That tobacco stuff can be extremely nasty.

Do you feel at all like you have to be a motherly good influence? Or do you get to be more like an aunt that spoils the kid?

i have a house and a kid. i feel like a straight chick

[identity profile] the-siobhan.livejournal.com 2003-07-02 11:47 am (UTC)(link)
What are you using to wash the walls with? That tobacco stuff can be extremely nasty.

For the moment, just heavy duty soap. Mostly I just want to get enough crap off the walls and ceilings that I'm not afraid to touch things.

At the moment we are cleaing up rooms that we are going to be using temporarily until we get the top floor fixed up enough to move in completely.

Next step: Scrubbing out the room where we are going to be storing all our stuff. Then we start on the bathroom and the kitchen. :-p

Do you feel at all like you have to be a motherly good influence? Or do you get to be more like an aunt that spoils the kid?

You are talking to a woman who bought her nephew fake ID for his 15th birthday so he could get into a [livejournal.com profile] v_twins gig. I wouldn't know how to be a good influence even if I tried.

[livejournal.com profile] caspervonb refered to me a couple of times as "your mom" when he was talking to her, and I found that kind of... jarring. Not that I reject the term or anything, but I honestly don't feel like I'm entitled to claim the name "mother". I wasn't there when she was growing up. She had a very good mother, and I am extrememly thankful and grateful for that.

I'm not entirely sure what my role will turn out to be. Certainly I want to be a supportive person in her life. She's already experienced a lot of what it's like to be the Weird One and The Outsider -- I think it's a really cool thing that I can introduce her to other people have had to go through much the same experience.

I think this is something that will settle out over time. I figure the best way to handle it is just being myself.