re: the first - there's types of conflict that can be healthy, but then there's other conflict that is terribly unproductive. I think it's a matter of being able to gauge if something good is going to come out of it or if ppl are just going to be all FUCK YOU FOREVER. I think the depth of the relationship plays a MAJOR role as well.
re: the second - speaking for myself, i hate bullies bc I know I can be one. I find the stuff I hate most is the stuff I am terrified of becoming. When I see that shit in other ppl, I flip my goddamned wig.
re: the third - I think you talk some shit about other ppl but you aren't all cloak & dagger about it. I've not heard you talk 12 miles of shit about someone and then see you kiss their ass at the club two days later. Matter of fact, I don't think I've seen you kiss anyone's ass. I also get the impression if you talked some shit and said shit target came to you, you'd admit the shit and probably give reasons behind it.
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Date: 2008-11-16 04:55 am (UTC)re: the second - speaking for myself, i hate bullies bc I know I can be one. I find the stuff I hate most is the stuff I am terrified of becoming. When I see that shit in other ppl, I flip my goddamned wig.
re: the third - I think you talk some shit about other ppl but you aren't all cloak & dagger about it. I've not heard you talk 12 miles of shit about someone and then see you kiss their ass at the club two days later. Matter of fact, I don't think I've seen you kiss anyone's ass. I also get the impression if you talked some shit and said shit target came to you, you'd admit the shit and probably give reasons behind it.