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Things I need to do, in no particular order

1. I really need a freaking will. I know so many people in my extended circle who have died in the last few months - and every last one of them was younger than me. 1. What the hell is going on and 2. I need to make a damn will already[1].

2. In relation to item 1, I need to sort out my finances. I have been kind of squirrelling away money in various places over the years and at some point I need to just... figure out where it all is and what's going to happen to it if I kick it. In theory, knowing how much money I have will also mean I can do things like... spend some of it. Maybe. If renovations don't hoover it all up. Or more likely it will mean knowing how much I have to frantically stash away so I stand a chance in hell of actually retiring some day before I'm 80[2].

3. I need to make a coherent list of all the things that need to be done around the house that aren't just the kitchen. I think the plumber that put in the upstairs fixtures maybe wasn't very good and there is some repair work that needs to be done. Darrell started fixing the stairs to the top floor and that never got finished before he went into the hospital. There is a hole in our basement door and the cold room door latch doesn't work properly and the rail in the laundry room keeps falling off the wall.

Some of it I can do myself, some of it will need a professional. (I refuse to touch plumbing.) Mostly this is about breaking it into bite-sized pieces so I don't just get overwhelmed and give up.

4. I still have boxes of my sister's photos that I need to deal with. Actually I have a bunch of things that I'm hanging on to that I need to deal with. I am very much not good at the dealing with.

5. I think I need to spend more time with people in meat space. I'm getting weird in the head.


[1] If you know me, and want something of mine, speak up now.
[2] Granny pr0n is my backup plan.

"paperwork buddy" time

Date: 2022-05-07 11:03 am (UTC)
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From: [personal profile] brainwane
Would you be interested in one or two videocall sessions of the following format?

5 min: chitchat if desired
20 minutes: silently catch up a little on paperwork we have each been putting off
5 minutes: break
20 minutes: more paperwork
5 minutes: chitchat if desired

I have similar stuff I need to work on and could use some peer pressure time!

Re: "paperwork buddy" time

Date: 2022-05-07 04:09 pm (UTC)
brainwane: My smiling face, including a small gold bindi (Default)
From: [personal profile] brainwane
Sure! Maybe the night of Monday the 16th, like 7pm Eastern Time? (I am very flexible re: times that evening, any time 5pm-9pm - or Tues May 17th, anytime 6pm-9pm.) Lemme know and I will private message you a meeting URL.

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